true, that engaged couples should not only prepare for the wedding but the marriage itself. it will be a waste spending thousands or even millions then filing for annulment after a few months just because you both didn't give much importance to what's ahead of you as married couple.
for me, it is not only important but VERY important! i have clearly discussed with Mario in the beginning that while preparing for the wedding, we will also prepare for our marriage, emotionally and spiritually. we have been sharing thoughts on some serious issues about the married life and so far, we have consistent and similar answers. there are still some points that we differ, of course, but we have learned to compromise and talk seriously.
so while we are here together in Singapore, we both wanted to take every opportunity to improve our relationship thus we are planning to join a Marriage Preparation Course. this is such an exciting course because we will be sharing thoughts about marriage to some other couples, young and old. this will be a 6-session course done every Sunday at 9am. whooaaaa!
we have not submitted our application yet because we are waiting for his work schedule. once everything is final, off i go to singpost to mail our forms!
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